Meet Valerie
Board Certified Coach,
Certified Partner Coach-Candidate
I’ve been where you are. Living with the impact of a spouse’s pornography use, secrecy, or infidelity can leave you feeling stuck, confused, and completely alone. With the right support, I found my way back to clarity, safety, and strength — and I believe you can too. My coaching is designed to help you understand what’s happening, calm the overwhelm, and rebuild trust in yourself. You are stronger than you know. You are capable, resilient, and deserving of peace. I’m here to walk with you as you heal.
Have you recently discovered or been living with the impacts of a spouse's compulsive pornography use or other problematic sexual behavior?
You may be feeling:
Confused about what to do next
Unsure about what is really true
A mix of intense emotions and numbness
Like there's no one you can talk to about this
Caught in a never ending cycle
Valerie helped me more in a few sessions than my therapist in 6 months. She helped me get really clear about who I am and what my values are, then align my goals with those values. I'm making progress and growing in profound ways. She's professional, warm, caring, and supportive. You are in great hands when you have her as a coach.
- K. M.
Working with Valerie as my life coach has been a game-changer. Her ability to create a judgment-free space allowed me to openly discuss various aspects of my life. Through her empowering questions, I found solutions that noticeably elevated my satisfaction at work and in life overall. Grateful for the positive impact on my journey.
- P. S.
Valerie has many special gifts. She is a very patient, compassionate, and excellent listener. She really cares, understands, is empathetic, validating, and gentle with your feelings and experiences. She gets it. She's helped me feel seen and heard. She meets you where you are at in your journey - without judgment. Valerie has helped me feel empowered, hopeful, confident, and less alone. I highly recommend her!
- K.T.
